Should Women Approach Men In Dating ?
How To Have A Merry Christmas While Single
One of the biggest headaches I’ve had about dating is figuring out if a woman should approach a man that she’s interested in. Sure, I’ve heard from Steve Harvey and men who I know say no, “men are the hunters, women don’t have to do anything.” Sounds simple until time goes by and it’s not …read more →
Young and Married or Single ? How Do I Live My 20s ?
Having an overflow of engagements, weddings and soon to be parents ain’t new. It’s seems all year long the people of my TL have been feeling the love. Now that it’s the holidays the singles’ blues has been amplified. I am forever seeing them reshare videos of a girl that’s getting proposed to in front of …read more →
When Your Prayers And Actions Don’t Match
There has been an ongoing debate on my Facebook feed about what doing your 20s the right way looks like. I’ve read tons of rants about how singles should stop hoeing around or how lonely we are. I’ve seen posts of young parents claiming the only reason why some of us don’t have children is …read more →
It’s Okay To Turn Down A Date
To me this saying means that in spite of what society thinks we should have, our background and mistakes; whatever God sees fit for us will be ours as long as we want it/work for it. In the midst of going through setbacks I often wonder if people say it so much that its become …read more →
What Are The Rules To Dating?
The reason why you’re single is because you won’t give the people in your dms a chance. I’ve seen a post similar to this floating around my social media pages and I have to admit, initially it made me feel some type of way. Recently it’s been going down in my dms and I’m still …read more →
Feeling Like Guys Don’t Notice You?
I’ve been thinking lately maybe I’m not ready to date. Not because of any major issue like having a problem being tied down or trust issues, but because I can’t seem to get the hang out the unwritten rules of dating. It’s like I want to simply be myself, but myself keeps running into dead …read more →
Maybe Dating A Parent Shouldn’t Be Dealbreaker
“I want a girl that’s loyal, smart, goes to church, not a thot, funny, that I can talk to…you know a good girl,” he says. After everything he named on his list a bell in my head rings. He’s talking about me! I have these things. That’s what I think, and yet somehow reality doesn’t …read more →
The Love Exchange
There was a point in time when I was totally against dating a guy with a child. A man would go from “he looks good” to “never mind” the moment I realized a child was in the picture. After spending time talking to God and reevaluating my standards I ended up questioning myself about this. Why was …read more →
Are You Giving For The Wrong Reasons?
Hey everybody! I hope everyone is blessed. This is going to be a mega short post, but I wanted to finish up on the last post. On the previous post I ended with the question: how can I love someone without expecting anything back without becoming depleted? I do believe that it is true that …read more →
We all have flaws and the first step to getting rid of them is by recognizing them. Here it is: I am selfish. I never thought I was selfish before, but here I am writing about it. I’ve always considered myself a considerate person. I love buying people gifts, I’ve sacrificed for people, and I’ve …read more →