My Kinda-Sorta Self-Care Hiatus: What I’ve Learned
Should Women Approach Men In Dating ?
A lot of unexpected things happened since I backed away from being as talkative for a few weeks. I’m happy I called it a kinda-sorta self-care hiatus, because that’s exactly what is was. I didn’t fall off the face of the earth, but I did have a chance to think about some things that I …read more →
Young and Married or Single ? How Do I Live My 20s ?
One of the biggest headaches I’ve had about dating is figuring out if a woman should approach a man that she’s interested in. Sure, I’ve heard from Steve Harvey and men who I know say no, “men are the hunters, women don’t have to do anything.” Sounds simple until time goes by and it’s not …read more →
When Your Prayers And Actions Don’t Match
There has been an ongoing debate on my Facebook feed about what doing your 20s the right way looks like. I’ve read tons of rants about how singles should stop hoeing around or how lonely we are. I’ve seen posts of young parents claiming the only reason why some of us don’t have children is …read more →
When People Won’t Act Right
To me this saying means that in spite of what society thinks we should have, our background and mistakes; whatever God sees fit for us will be ours as long as we want it/work for it. In the midst of going through setbacks I often wonder if people say it so much that its become …read more →
What Are The Rules To Dating?
I’m 19 days into my self love photo challenge (#obbloveyourself). I truly believe what you speak into existence will come to be, because ever since I started this challenge I have been put into a position to love myself more. One of my main challenges have been dealing with people this month. I have had all …read more →
Feeling Like Guys Don’t Notice You?
I’ve been thinking lately maybe I’m not ready to date. Not because of any major issue like having a problem being tied down or trust issues, but because I can’t seem to get the hang out the unwritten rules of dating. It’s like I want to simply be myself, but myself keeps running into dead …read more →
Ways We Get Off Track With What God Said
“I want a girl that’s loyal, smart, goes to church, not a thot, funny, that I can talk to…you know a good girl,” he says. After everything he named on his list a bell in my head rings. He’s talking about me! I have these things. That’s what I think, and yet somehow reality doesn’t …read more →
The Love Exchange
People say they are going to “just follow God” this is a great idea, but I’ve noticed often times people aren’t even sure about what God has told them. I think it’s because of two main reasons. One reason is we forget what God has told/shown us. I know it might seem like the all …read more →
Hey everybody! I hope everyone is blessed. This is going to be a mega short post, but I wanted to finish up on the last post. On the previous post I ended with the question: how can I love someone without expecting anything back without becoming depleted? I do believe that it is true that …read more →